Monday, June 28, 2010
Auntie Lindsie!!
Ghana vs. US A Matter of Faith?
Nothing Better than Monday Morning!
Saturday, June 26, 2010
Saturday Morning and Walking Asofan
Thursday, June 24, 2010
Ghana Soccer
Friday, June 18, 2010
20 Minute Break!
I just now went to buy phone credits for the weekend, and possibly to escape the office for a little while ;) This little task turned into a cool and relieving opportunity to have some time to myself for awhile, and just relax. I walked down through this little market area right behind the office. Someone called me obruni and I called them obebeni back (not an expected response) and they seemed to be very proud of me and kept saying a couple more things as I kept walking. Then just walking through the market in general gives you chances to say hi and how are you to people, etc. The pathway between the stalls is pretty small, so you are always close to people and usually they want to get your attention, even just a bit.
I was going to buy my credits from a guy I met last week, but he wasn't there… his little stand was empty. So I decided to walk the long way back and find some other card selling people (they are everywhere... really. Lol, I need to add one part to that … everywhere, except by the home I live in.)
I just walked down like 2 or 3 streets I haven't been down, but are literally the equivalent of walking 'around the block' that I work on. I got to say hello to people, talk with the little kids, a bit. I met a girl named Abigail. She is 10 and in 4th grade, she 'helped' me find another place to buy credits. (I could already see the stand.. but she decided to help me) she has 3 little brothers who walked with me for a moment asking where I was going (which initiated her decision to help me get there). On the left turn that would return me the street of my office, some more kids said hi, so I said hi back, which actually started a conversation with a woman running a shop who said she likes my 'style” – aka – the style of my dress. I don't know how this style would be any different than what you could find anywhere.. but that's ok. J Her friend was semi translating as I spoke English and my little bit of Twi. The first woman suggested that she would teach me Twi, and then I could teach her English. Leaving her shop, I noticed another shop with soccer balls!! I stopped to buy a soccer ball (the interns up north promised one to someone). I talked with the man who owns/runs the shop and was able to kind of have a conversation about the soccer games that have been going on! It was cool to have something that only a few words can convey.
I think I’ll walk down that street more often…
The Rest of the Dress Story
Special Lunch
Wow! Today was a little bit of a Western world experience! Early this afternoon we were picked up by Stephen Abu’s driver. We were later than expected so Stephen met us and we went on a couple errands with him. First we went to the Supreme Court to get some papers notarized to help a family adopt a little girl! Then he had an errand to the embassy, but we decided to stop for lunch first!
Lunch.. was an especially good treat. We went to a restaurant called Southern Fried Chicken. This place had a lot of foreign food – even Indian and Lebonese!! The treat we decided to go for though, was pizza.
They had about 40 different topping combinations. As we were reading, we came across one that mentioned ‘garlic’. This particular word seemed to have a hypnotizing feeling, and nothing without garlic on it could have possibly satisfied us. Garlic was only available on that one pizza. Garlic, onions, and peppers. What kind of pizza is that? How could we eat a pizza with no meat on it when we finally have meat (that isn’t chicken) that we can trust?? So, despite our wide variety of choices, we decided to be annoying Americans; we asked for another flavor of pizza, with garlic added on top :D we had pepperoni, salami, ham, and garlic pizza. (for… roughly $2.25 more. A high price, but one we were willing to pay.) The pizza was wonderful. We haven’t had real cheese here either, so there were quite a few things we’ve been missing. More important than anything else though, was that blessed garlic. Now why would the garlic be such an occasion, you ask? Well, because Ghanaians believe in one flavor. No, really. One. They use the same flavor for their jollof rice as their soup, chicken, stews, sauces, anything that isn’t naturally flavored, is flavored with the exact same flavor. It’s a spicy flavor, .. It seems like it is made of ginger and nutmeg in it, but I don’t remember the last ingredient. (Elizabeth makes hers from scratch, and told me how she makes it.) This means having any other flavor, garlic, BBQ, lemon pepper, onion, tomato, cheese, alfredo, marinara, taco seasoning, gravy… any of it, would be amazing right about now.
Monday, June 14, 2010
Comment on Soccer
My Ward in Ghana
The church is such a wonderful organization! This week I attended yet another new ward (first week was the Jonestown branch, second week visiting in Abomosu, third week attended a Methodist meeting). This ward meets by the temple (same place as the Jonestown branch) and was a boost to my spirits today. The first branch I attended with was quite small, and while one woman did talk with me for a few minutes, I certainly felt like a stranger. The blessing of a ward who is open and inviting is huge. No wonder the prophets urge us to befriend each other. To reach out to new members of the ward. I now feel like I have a ward family here, and look forward to meeting with these brothers and sisters again.
Today was quite an unusual day in the ward. It started with having 8 confirmations. EIGHT!!! Most of them were sisters, and dressed in white dresses with simple designs. This ward was just split, and is continuing to grow – but even the ward itself commented that 8 confirmations in one day was a new experience. Beyond many new members, there were so many Obroni!! (Non-black, we interpret it as ‘white’, but really they include Asians, Latinos, Europeans… anyone not black.) There is a very young couple with a little boy who work at the US Embassy, a mother and daughter who moved to Ghana with their husband/father’s work and plan to be here for several years, a missionary, and I think 8 couple missionaries/temple presidency. It was very strange to have so many whites. Interestingly enough, the strangest phenomenon of having so many whites was actually the little boy (probably 6-9 months). Occassionally we see whites.. but they are always adults. The sight of a white child was just so unusual. Even to me. I guess I’ve adapted to the ‘black everywhere’ idea much much more than I had thought. I am still surprised at how everyone here is black, it just seems like too much… yet when I see whites they just don’t seem to fit in the picture anymore either!
After sitting with one of the sister missionaries, talking between meetings, sitting with the mother and daughter in relief society, and talking after church – I have a number of contacts and friends.
The relief society president – Peggy – is actually the sister of Stephen Abu, the family the Abomosu interns are living with. This means I have already met Peggy, and actually talked with her through a 2 hour car ride to Abomosu. I was surprised that of all wards, I was in hers! She is very sweet, has two young boys (… 10 and 7? ish?) and it felt so wonderful to recognize a local! I wasn’t very trusting of my senses initially, but there she was.
Sister Smith is the sister missionary I sat next to during sacrament meeting. She once lived in Utah, and knows Farmington! (Such a simple, but good feeling.) She is on what sounds like her second mission in Ghana. We now both have each other’s contact information, and I am invited to stay at their apartment on weekends. The apartment is just a block or so from the temple, but it would be so wonderful to do things with some of the women of the church. This gives me a great alternative to going out with ‘the guys’ on the Friday nights that we stay in Accra. She also explained where I can buy more Book of Mormons! (Sorry for anyone who is concerned about where the “S” is on that phrase..) I brought my quad, and then the single Book of Mormon that I gave out a week ago. I’ve been missing having a Book of Mormon separate from my quad.. and may be hoping to get the chance to give out another.
The mother and daughter, Tina and Brooke, were actually visiting the ward as well. They live in Kenyasi, close to the gold mines. Tina’s husband works for the mines and is teaching local talent the ins and outs of his job. They have been here a year and a half and anticipate being here a few more years. They only come to Accra once every couple of months, so I was very lucky to catch them! After today’s meetings, I have been invited to come and stay with them for a weekend. To see Kenyasi and some of the Western Region, and of course spend some time with some Americans. I told them I would bring up a brownie mix and chocolate chips J The only challenge now is finding out how to get there…. lol.
As a side note, there is a lesson I keep learning – well, have been learning for the past 6 months – about judging people by their age. Its absolutely ridiculous! We all have so much in common and should be able to relate and be friends with people of any age, and not doubt their abilities too much. My high school students were fantastic and brilliant students. They have great ability, and there is no reason to try and hold them back. Also, women who are older than us share so much. When the end of the day comes, life is life. We all get up in the mornings, go to work on our daily tasks, try to help those we love, face trials and frustration, and try to move on through life the best we can.
Rose is the final ‘new friend’ to talk about. We spoke after all the meetings while I was waiting for a ride. She learned I am giving loans here through a company, and told me about a grand venture she is doing. She has done microloans in Tanzania before – creating small groups of individuals to give loans to, and help them to improve their lives. (I don’t think that she recognizes this as micro-finance.. at least it didn’t sound like it.) She tells me that when she came back to her own country, she realized how much poverty there is here in Ghana, and wanted to do something about it. She and her husband have created a women’s center of sorts. Its goals include improving women’s health, women’s rights, economic support, and education. They have done breast cancer screenings and education, have made washable sanitary napkins, taught general hygiene, and take any experts they can get their hands on to help teach business practices, and specifically how to improve farming techniques. The surrounding villages are begging Rose to take her program to them, but she simply can’t afford it. These women live out very far from Accra, on the Western border of Ghana, and they do farming. The center has provided all kinds of equipment to help process the foods. From knives to peel, to who knows what goes into making gyree. The women simply bring their raw product, and then put it through the processing, and then can sell it. (This is a huge benefit to even thinking of doing this by hand… which would take away time from beginning the next planting.) One of the biggest problems facing them is that once the food is processed, they have to wait until all the food is sold until they can buy more goods to start the next planting. (Sounding familiar? This is exactly what most people Kingsbridge works with struggle with… except they don’t have to wait an entire planting season to earn their money back to pay a loan.) Rose is trying to fix that problem by selling their goods for them, and possibly loaning them a little bit of money to get started on the next round. The problem is now to Rose. How does she sell all of this gyree? (No real idea what gyree is by the way… except that it sounds like it is made with cassava.) She has to wait for people to come to her and buy it. What they really need, what I’m sure MANY Ghanaians are needing, is transportation of goods. Which is very very difficult on the poor roads, and without a vehicle cannot move the goods anyway. (An example of the roads : her center is roughly 270 kilometers away from Accra – 168 miles. It takes them 8 hours to drive there. Under US roads.. this would take about 3 hours.) This season is especially difficult because it is the rainy season, making the roads even worse. She needs a car. I don’t think there is any way she would be able to get a loan big enough for a car from Kingsbridge. It would simply be too expensive. A car would cost roughly $4,000. They have taken out a loan of that size before, actually even larger, but took 2 years to pay it off.. not something Kingsbridge is likely to add to their portfolio – additionally because the center is so far away making repayment, monitoring, and consulting difficult. Rose told me I will be coming home with her a week from next Sunday to her home – where she will show me pictures of the center, and tell me more about what they do. I’m very interested, but very at a loss to do much to help. Their heavy equipment has all been from donations (from the church, a group within the United Nations, and one other…) and the experts have been paid to come teach by one of these institutions, or come by volunteer. I’m hoping to look at the financial end of exactly what is happening.. and seeing if we can improve business in some way that can allow her to expand. She takes no pay but does this as charity work with her husband. I look forward to learning more.
Friday, June 11, 2010
Remember My Dress?
Thursday, June 10, 2010
Death Traps and Cho-Chos
Laundry and Showers
Saturday, June 5, 2010
Time to Explain Susu
In its simplest form, susu is a savings program. Each day people bring their susu (some amount of money they can afford to give) to a susu collector. The amount can vary from 1 cedi per day ($ .70) to 10 cedi $7.00) and higher. The hope or intention is to pay in every day, although people frequently miss. They turn in their susu, and the susu collector brings it all to the bank for them. In payment, the Susu collector takes one day's worth of susu for each month. The individuals can come and ask for their money from the collector at any time, and many come to collect it at the end of the month. Then they use the money to buy more inventory, or whatever they choose. so.. even though it is savings, most people, like 90+% people, are not using it for any kind of long term savings.
The question then arises - why do people even give their money to these people? Part is that they don't want to have the money from their business all at home where it may be unsafe. Also, out of sight out of mind allows people to save just a little bit every day, and then have enough at the end of the month to purchase their next batch of inventory. Second question - why pay someone to take your money to the bank for you? A lot of this is due to the small amount.. banks are large and very official institutions, and bringing in 2 or 3 cedi a day would be an embarassment.. and the banks would get annoyed with the people.
Many of the Susu collectors are now taking on the responsibility of giving small loans to those they collect from. (Again, just like our customers, usually to buy inventory to finish selling the current batch.) The loans being required of the Susu collectors are turning some of them into Kingsbridge to seek their loans. This is a new market for us, and one that we are trying to explore more.
Well That Was Easy
Work started late today, as it is Saturday and Manasseh and Elizabeth believe we need to rest, so we planned on being picked up to go to the office about 10. By the time 12:00 rolled around, someone was on their way to get us. Now the biggest reason that this was highly unfortunate is that we were supposed to have a meeting today on Microfinance, where it is going, and how Kingsbridge fits into the new development. This meeting was with a board member (1 of4) and it was now too late for us to go through all the information needed. So we talked with him for awhile, along with two others who accompanied him (friends, not tied to Kingsbridge). Josh and I received assignments to report on what we learn while we are here, specifically doing a kind of feasibility study, and growth plans for Kingsbridge’s future. It should be interesting…
Through this discussion it was mentioned that I was from Utah. After our semi-group meeting ended, one of the board member’s friends – Ben – asked if, being from Utah, I was Mormon. He apparently listens to the Mormon Tabernacle Choir nearly every morning (he has several of their CD’s, including the Christmas Program) and has visited several temples that he describes as “beautiful”. He also especially likes the song “I Believe in Christ”. He confirmed that the founder of the church is Joseph Smith, and asked if it was he that stands on top of the temples. I told him, no, it is actually angel Moroni who stands atop each temple. This drew the question – and who is Moroni? He is the last prophet in the Book of Mormon. What is the Book of Mormon, like the Bible? We believe in the Bible, but also that there is more scripture, the Book of Mormon. A family who lived with the Jews at the time of King Zedekiah received revelation to leave. They were led to cross the ocean and lived in the Americas. The Book of Mormon is a record of their prophets and revelations, just like the Bible. When Christ told the apostles that He was going to visit his other sheep, we believe He came and visited the people in the Americas. It talks about Christ’s coming. Is that before or after Christ ascended? I’m not sure… I actually have my scriptures here, we can pull it out and look at it. (Pull out Book of Mormon) We get caught looking at the pictures in the front – who is this? Joseph Smith. What is this picture? This is Lehi – the first prophet – and his family. This picture? Samuel the Lamanite. This one is Christ when he appeared to the people. This last picture is of the prophet Moroni. He looks like a native American, Yes we believe that the current native Americans are descendants from these people it talks about in the Book of Mormon. All of their prophets and apostles were killed, just like in the Middle East, and so they did not have the gospel anymore. But some of the Native American religious ideas really tie into the Book of Mormon. For example, the Aztecs believing Cortes to be Quezotcoatyl.
Can I hold it? Of course! We turn to 3 Nephi 10, where Christ appears. He starts reading through the first few verses.. I pull out my scriptures (my quad, he has my Book of Mormon from Alan) and start looking up the same to find when exactly Christ came. So is that your Bible? Yes, well, it has the Bible in the front, and Book of Mormon and Doctrine and Covenants in the back. D&C is a record of the revelations of Joseph Smith. I’ll have to look this up when I get home. Oh, no, have this book. Really. (A debate continues of whether he can accept the book, because I have a letter in the front couple pages from Alan. We conclude that he can, and I tear out the front two pages that include the letter.) It all ended with me writing my name and email address on the title page, and I’m hoping to get an email! He is flying out of Ghana later today, headed toward home in Michigan.. I hope he decides to do some reading!
Big Religion. Big Companies.
Well, its quarter to 1 here in Accra, and I just got off the phone with my family. I’m sure my mother would be disheartened to know that this, this is the time I get the bug to write. Talking with my family highlighted even more how much I have not written for this week.
I figured I should write about my adventures at a university, M.U.C.G.’s. I actually don’t remember at all what it stands for, but I’m sure its Methodist something. It is a private Methodist university, and they teach all kinds of subjects – psychology, history, business, technology, etc. Mannasseh attended another branch of this same school for his college experience, and wanted us to meet with one of their vice principals. Again, this was one of those great times where I got to be in my ‘education’ element. I know what questions to ask, and how to relate to the people better. Even more so when the school’s have that religious touch (something nearly everything here has). Actually, I think I’ll use that tangent for a moment, because its important in understanding Ghana. There are many many religions here. Most are Christian, but I swear I’ve never seen so many churches in my life – and that’s not just due to being raised in Utah. There are the churches you would expect, Methodist, Catholic, Presbyterian (affectionately called “the Presby”), but also the Lighthouse church, Assembly of God, and then churches with Christian sounding phrases for names. (I can’t even think of any off hand.. though driving to work I’ll easily see a dozen of them.) In addition to their churches, their shops are all named after gospel words or ideas. The “love and joy store”, “Jesus Loves you Salon”, “In God we Trust” seamstress shop, “In His Hands” something or another shop… everything is focused back toward religion. And if not directly toward religion it has the word joy, love, happiness, or peace in it. Even the main radio station is called “Love FM”. Despite all of the religion around though, I have not heard many people speak specifically of their religion. I’m sure this is in part because I’m working with a business where I want to know about your financial standing, and financial goals.. but I’m not sure how widely discussed religion is.
In addition to having religious and ‘feel good’ names of everything, the politics here are very.. nice. There have been 2 small political ‘scandals’ while I’ve been here. The first was that someone compared the President to a chimpanzee. The second was that a famous rapper in the music awards made a comment that “more people listen to me than to the President”. Both remarks were met with at least half hour talk shows on the radio, people calling and texting in, frustrated that someone would be so low and rude to say such a thing about the President. Comments like “we need to sanitize our political talk” are coming out of the radio, and I just can’t believe it. Obama would be thrilled if that were all the worse he was being called by media personnel throughout the country. They have a lot of respect for free speech as well, but suggest that, you don’t need to be disrespectful about it.
Also, oil is a big new industry here. Oil companies are moving in and the people are getting nervous. Will oil actually bring money to the country? Is it creating a rich group in the center of poor villages? One radio comment was about the oil spill going on currently in the Gulf of Mexico (they are also very international about their news) and that there could be harmful effects if the oil company is too big to care about its people. A caller suggested that whomever comes in should have some list of traits.. probably only 4 requirements, but one of those 4 was that they should be God fearing. How interesting that it is such a high priority. In the US someone would laugh at hearing such a statement made with such sincerity. Here, it is part of life.
Another big company made a big step in Ghana. Google is creating a translator option into Twi. This has people excited here. Google, a huge, powerful company, cares about them. Cares about adding their language to the internet. The radio MP was pretty impressed. Google is also very smart about coming to Ghana J Last night there was a story about a 4 year old girl who has cancer in her eyes.. She has had one surgery before removing one of her eyes, and now without another surgery is not expected to live out the month. A program had been made talking with doctors, her family, etc. and shared over the radio to try and raise money. The amount needed was 3,000 Ghana Cedis. (pronounced “seedys”). This is about.. 2,200 US Dollars. Google paid the full amount, and then all the money the family raised in addition could help for past medical bills. So, for $2,200 Google has established itself as a company that cares about the individual lives of the ‘regular people’ that they serve. Big hit. Very smart.
Alright Mom, you were right. Now I should go to bed. J I’ll write about M.U.C.G.’s tomorrow. Goodnight all.
Friday, June 4, 2010
Some Pics
Teaching to Type??
Wednesday, June 2, 2010
Tuesday - Week 2
Tuesday
I did a lot of walking today! Now, typically, for me that is a very good sign. It means I got to see people, in their element, living life as it is lived here in Ghana. I see homes and shops, smile at the kids, and say ‘bebeni’ (black person) to people who call me ‘obroni’ (white person). Ok, so I’ve only said it back to people for a couple days, but I said it to one man today and I think he almost fell over. J
Unfortunately, I also choose to wear a very cute dress today, which made me choose to wear my very cute pink shoes. I was actually complimented on them by Junior, and I figured I’d be very safe wearing them. They are cute, but they do not suffice as walking shoes. Walking any distance at all results in blisters. Meaning… after walking around more today.. I’m on the verge of several blisters. That means that even now at work I’m sitting with my shoes off. But I am very happy because I get extra internet time, I’m not even remotely expected to be working right now, so I can relax, and just enjoy. Enjoy having the internet when people are online, sitting in the air-conditioning, in Ghana, after having just helped a small family to get a loan.
I realized I haven’t really introduced the people I work with. Since there are literally 5 of us, I’m thinking its probably worth just telling you who everyone is. Manasseh is the president, and is also the person we are living with. Emmanuel is our driver, neighbor, and Twi teacher. Primarily though he is our driver, he drives around to collect money, monitor clients, go to the bank, pick up lunch, and usually is the one to drive us home from work. Junior and Ivy are both employees here, they help with all the paperwork, talk with clients, help determine conditions, and help monitor clients. (Manasseh, as the President, does all of these same things), finally there is Paddy. He is our official IT guy, and is only in a couple times a week, and even then not for the whole day. That’s it! That’s our little bunch of people trying to give out micro-loans.
Also, to give a better idea of what this company actually does… People here in Ghana, don’t really have access to capital. They will buy inventory, and sell it. However, they need to get new inventory with money they don’t yet have, because they haven’t sold all of their existing inventory… if that makes sense. You sell $100 drums of oil. That means you buy several drums of oil for $70 each. You need to buy more drums because you’re inventory is running low.. unfortunately, you won’t have the money to buy more drums, until you sell all the ones you already have. That is the story for many of the people we are working with. They just need money to buy inventory. They really already have everything they need, there simply is just not any access to credit, and hardly any concept of savings accounts – assuming anyone would have significant amounts of money they could afford to save.
We take this for granted in the United States like crazy. Having liquidity and access to loans makes life so much easier! The people can’t really go to banks because they take ages to process things, and they demand collateral, credit, and a savings account at their location. Banks are just too difficult, bulky, and intimidating. Due to this problem, people need to find other places to borrow money. There are literally so many people who need loans that Kingsbridge does ZERO advertising. Any advertising would bring in more loans than they could process. Credit… it can cause so many problems.. too much = the meltdown. not enough = a helpless economy.
Due to that, we work with a lot of traders. People who are buying and selling basic inventory. Food, cloth, drinks, car parts, etc. And, most people aren’t taking out what we think of as ‘micro’ loans. The most common is 500 ghana cedis. The range of 500 – 1500 cedis is most common. (This is roughly $400 - $1200). Someone came for a 100 cedi loan – ($70) very, very unusual.
So, today.. I went to visit the head accountant of the Achimota IRS branch. (sounds pretty official, eh?) Her cousin is trying to get a loan with us, and we went to talk to her about the loan. Apparently she knows someone at Kingsbridge. She was very very nice, and definitely laughed when she heard me say ‘thank you’ in Twi. (PS thank you in Twi is “ma-da-say”). She also highlighted a few concerns that are going to help make Kingsbridge a very good choice for susu – people who do savings for groups of people. (Kind of like a mini bank… sort of.) So, fun, nice to walk around and see more.
The next several hours of my day were excessively uneventful. Hardly anyone came into the office, and I had very little to do. I was bored. Finally, hours later, a few people started coming into the office, paying their loans, turning in documents. A woman and her daughter came in – which resulted in a semi-lengthy conversation about what she wanted to take out as a loan, what she could pay without putting a burden on her or her family, etc. The woman spoke very very little English, and her daughter translated a lot for her. This woman seemed to be very pure Twi. Junior was having a difficult time expressing some things to her. Junior (as well as the others in the office, excluding Emmanuel, are Ga. The Ga’s mostly live in the south and are actually originally from Accra. They also speak Ga. And Twi. But it means that Twi is more a second language to them and it is not so refined as those who speak Twi as their first language. After setting terms both parties could agree to, we walked to the woman’s store.
The woman herself actually stayed in the office and her daughter just took us. This was apparently because she is very shy, and if you go walking around with 2 whites.. you’re going to get a lot of attention! So she stayed to avoid the stares and whatnot. I think I’m used to it now.. people mostly try to not be overly obvious about it, but you know its still happening.
Good times! Time to go! (Ghana lost their first friendly match in the world cup.. sad day. Haha, unfortunately, I'm more disappointed to lose the internet than Ghana losing.. don't tell)
Tuesday, June 1, 2010
Good Monday
There is still a lot to write, and I haven't said much about work, or things last week.. I suppose it helps that I have only been able to write twice in my first 9 days here. Ok, now to begin, and hopefully touch on at least most of what I was hoping to. Today (Monday night) was probably my best day of work yet! The day started well. It wasn’t really any earlier than normal, but we were picked up at Stephen’s house at 6:30am to drive into Accra and go to work. We drove with a missionary couple (the Terry’s) and found plenty to talk about. I look forward to meeting with them again in the future. The weekend really was so nice partly because of the influence of the church. The family we stayed with, as well as the four USU members there are all part of the church. Add on top of that church meetings, and a very long and good talk about God with Josh last night, and it was a good weekend.
We drove roughly 3 hours from Abomosu down to Achimota. We stopped in self named “bread town” and got two giant rolls. They tasted wonderful! I could eat one every morning. Otherwise the trip was uneventful. They were able to drop us off on the freeway, and we knew how to get to the office from there! (It is honestly less than a block, but we, and Kingsbridge, were very proud of us.) Another taste of independence. On our trip we found our way there, found 2 individuals who may qualify for loans, and found our way back, including a walk to the office. Once we got there we wanted to get something to eat or drink, and instead of having it ordered or being driven – we were shown a small shop where we could buy some juice! It is a small thing, but was very nice.. Josh and I decided to pretty much just eat fruit and bread for lunches. It is MUCH cheaper than ordering food, and honestly, we don’t need three BIG meals a day. Haha, I also learned that my stomach has been reacting to the food here – it has been getting bigger. Eating in Abomosu was sufficient, but both Josh and I could have eaten much more. (Abbie, we were fine, promise. We are just getting used to ridiculously sized meals.) I’m totally going to gain weight here! The only saving grace for my waistline is the point that it is all so dang healthy. Hardly anything here could be compared to ‘candy’ or ‘sweets’ there. No junk food except what we packed along with us.
Once at work, we learned the power was off. So, we just kind of did nothing for a little, then went to collect money with Emmanuel. This is another small, but significant to me, blessing. On the drive with Emmanuel, Josh let me sit in front, and then took a nap. I’m not sure why Josh toning down a bit helps me to open up so much, but it really does! I started practicing my Twi WAY more than normal. Learning new words and using phrases as we drove. (Usually I listen to Josh do this same thing, and only really repeat some things.) For some reason this just gave me a confidence boost. I had my own chance to learn, to discuss, and to practice. Then back at the office I went back to my quiet desk and got online (the power was back on). Josh soon needed a computer, (we didn’t have our laptops) and so I traded him seats. Now… Josh’s desk is the very first one when you walk into the office. Mine is literally along the back wall. (It is a small office.. one room that is long and narrow.) Being in Josh’s desk meant I was able to greet everyone when they walked in. I wrote receipts for loan payments, talked with a woman about her business, talked with new clients and interviewed them about their business, etc. and even when there were no clients – I would speak up a lot more. I was joking that, “I’m not really quiet, I’m just always in the back!” I think I honestly surprised everyone I work with. Yes I actually can be outgoing, confident, straightforward, and fun. J Essentially.. sitting in the front, with my confidence boost this morning from Emmanuel, and a booster from visiting Abomosu for the weekend, was the perfect combination of wonderful things. To top that all off, a woman came in to pay part of her loan, and I was able to talk to her (through Ivy translating) about her business, what was happening, where she got her goods, etc. She sells cloth (toma) and copper jewelry. I asked several questions about the cloth and learned a lot about how things are done here. Long story short I commented that I liked one of them. Ivy apparently agreed. She bargained with the woman for quite awhile and bought the cloth! It comes in 6 yard bolts (some sell it in 3.. which is much more convenient) and so that will perfectly make 2 dresses for us. So I’m going to have a new dress! On the way home from work we stopped at a seamstress here in the community. I was then shown 4 walls of dresses I could choose from… alright, for anyone who knows me.. how successful could this possibly be? I finally choose one that I thought was cute, but needed more sleeves. That apparently was not going to work. My next selection though, was a success! I was then measured for my dress. Such a new experience; and kind of exciting. Now I just have to wait for Friday to come, or maybe wait til Sunday or Monday next week, and I’ll have a new – African – dress. This is something that will happen again in the future.. J It will cost roughly $13, which I feel pretty decent about. Ivy and I are going to go shopping sometime or another, for cloth and beads.
There was a girl at the shop too, who decided to keep calling me ‘obroni’, to which I was now able to reply (after having learned in Abomosu) “bebeni” (black person). We then got in a small contest of calling each other white and black people, and was actually really fun. I am now friends with the seamstress shop J
Finally, I had the opportunity to wash clothes today. That involves putting like 6 articles of clothing into a very small washer, pouring in the water, mixing in the soap and clothes, and letting it spin for 6 minutes. After that, you wring them out, and put them in a bucket. That bucket is carried outside where you try to rinse the soap out. This for some reason seems to be the most difficult and long process of the whole event. Then as you rinse them out, a piece at a time, you find a place to hang them on the clothesline. Then you wait, presumably not forever, though my jeans I believe may take several days.. if it stays dry. Lol. Let’s pray for no rain, and low humidity.
All in all, very good day. Josh is going to have to defend that post of his… I think after seeing just how huge the change was in me from sitting in the back to the front.. Kingsbridge will feel encouraged to change. (I’m not totally silent, uninvolved, or depressed in the back ;) it is just harder to participate in the natural conversation that develops. Not sure when to go and awkwardly join, or stay, or put myself out there). I’m thinking that I will propose we trade off sitting in the front, because it opened up the office so much to me. Haha, plus it was the busiest day at the office since we arrived. Also, getting a dress. What a way to make a girl smile.